The One Rare Question To Ask When Seeking A Potential Romantic Partner

 

"When was your last relationship, when was your first kiss? " These two questions are the most common dating questions, the thing about these question is they do not go back to the beginning.  Before, we all ask these questions, the answers started with an experience from dating. 

We never ask "what  emotions and feelings/impressions and doubts did you went through walking into  dating, dating culture or atmosphere. " This question is the most rarest and not too many of us will think about it.

It is important.  Firstly,  this rhetorical question is being open minded to anyone with little to no experience  plus more experience.  You could have an idea  or just be  unsure.   Secondly, its relatable and foreshadows of "Hey, I was at this place, I did not where to begin, I felt lost, I felt confident,etc."  Regardless of age, it took learning, searching and exploration, starting somewhere. 

This question enludes and not guesses.  Furthermore,  it builds conversation and room for details. 

In our niches, we really do not go outside the box of our impressions when hopping onto the dating scence.  Start off breaking the common and ask the thought provoking to better convey 


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